Monday, February 17, 2014

Valentines Day

This weekend, I realized that this is only the fourth Valentine's Day Brent and I have spent together. That seems kind of crazy when we are just about to have our second child. We've packed in a lot of life in four years! 

First Valentines Day (2011)
Brent and I had been married for six months and had known each other for just under a year. (We met on February 19, 2010.) Brent brought me home a huge balloon that lasted for about four months! and a beautiful rose. And I made the most gourmet dinner of my life (probably before or since): chicken fettuccine alfredo (with pasta made from scratch), pesto bruschetta, roasted asparagus, and "Brent Bait," which is what we call fruit salad tossed with pistachio-flavored whipped cream. It was good I went all out, because honestly it's probably the only time it's going to happen in the next few years . . . 





Second Valentine's Day (2012)
I think we did a low-key dinner or takeout at home, but I did pull out all the stops for my gift. I made homemade fortune cookies, with love notes inside each one.  I had a 2-month-old baby and on the day of Valentines realized I had nothing to give Brent. . . And shopping really wasn't an option because my sister, Marie, was borrowing my car. So, I found this idea online, and luckily had all the ingredients. And they turned out okay, although it took making about 30 fortune cookies to get these four good-looking ones. Ha ha. 




Third Valentines Day (2013)
Last year, Isaac was old enough to get his first Valentine! And probably the cutest one I've ever seen! We did dinner at home again, and although it looks really gourmet, it took me a fraction of the time as the meal from our first year together. (It's all about presentation!) I did make Creme Brulee though, which wasn't as scary as I thought it would be. As you can tell, Brent loved it. I gave him homemade trail mix and he got me gold earrings. Hmmmm.... I sense some disparity between those gifts. . . . . but if you count the meal and dessert, I think it's pretty even. :-)










Fourth Valentines Day (2014)

This year, we got takeout again, but Brent took me on a very lovely date the day after. We went to the temple and Red Fish Grill, which is officially my new favorire restaurant in Houston. Our meal was incredible! I surprised the boys by picking up donuts in the morning, and Isaac and I went to a party sin his friends. Then on Saturday we went to Herman Park to ride the train. It was a fantastic weekend and the last one we would have as a family of three!









Tuesday, February 4, 2014

Birth Plans and Patients' Rights

The more experience I get in the medical world, the more I realize how much you have to advocate for yourself as a patient. I think the vast majority of doctors are very competent and have their patients' best interests at heart, but often, because they are busy and stressed like the rest of us, things get left unsaid or unexplored. So often, you as the patient have to ask for the test, request the medication, or present an alternative. And this is very true of giving birth as well.

Of course you cannot control or plan everything about your birth, but there are a lot of things that you can request. I feel like, in general, mothers who plan on unmedicated births are much more likely to write birth plans than those who are not, but really there is a lot that you have control over no matter what type of birth you are having--even a planned cesarean.

I won't share all of my birth preferences because they are personal (i.e. too graphic) for my blog, but here is the majority of what my health care providers and I have discussed and have in writing:

Labor

      Pain relief: I plan to take things as they go. I am not opposed to an epidural, but I would like to try laboring without one. I don’t feel comfortable using any other pain medication options, but would be willing to consider them if there is a good reason for it.
            My husband: Brent would like to be involved and supportive during labor and delivery. He would like guidance from the midwife/nurses as to how to best assist me during the process.
Emotional/Mental Support: I had a very hard time focusing during labor with my first baby, and would really appreciate any emotional/mental support the midwife or nurse feels comfortable giving. I am the type that needs firm direction and help staying calm and focused. And I also am the type that seems to thrive with support and company, so you really can’t help too much.

       
Post-Birth Requests

Delayed cord cutting: We would like to delay cutting the umbilical cord for 3-5 minutes. (For information about why we are choosing to do this, here is a great four-part lecture you can watch on YouTube. But the short explanation is that it is better for the baby to wait.)
Request postponing newborn procedures: If possible, we would like to postpone newborn procedures to allow for bonding and breastfeeding. (This means the baby won't get eyedrops, bathed, weighed, etc. until after I get to hold and feed her.This is important because a) she'll be able to see me if there's not stuff in her eyes and b) newborns are most alert right after birth which gives breastfeeding a good headstart.) 

    

      Is there anything that you've requested in a birth plan that has been helpful to you? 




Sunday, February 2, 2014

A Lesson on Chocolate



This is an essay I wrote for the Central Utah Writing Project-- a professional development course I took the summer Brent and I were engaged. I had signed up for it before I knew I would shortly be leaving the teaching profession, but I'm so glad I did. It was the best professional development experience I ever had!

Just imagine a bunch of teachers getting together to eat good food, write, and share their writing. I know not everyone would think that was heaven, but I have a few friends out there who I know would agree with me. It was awesome!

This essay started out as a "Scribble"-- a quick morning writing prompt--but later expanded into a longer piece. I rediscovered it today and thought it would be fun to share. The only thing is that in the four years since writing this, I think I have officially become a chocolate snob. Anything other than good-quality chocolate just doesn't tempt me. And the only chocolate chips I keep around the house now are Ghirardelli bittersweet (yes, not semisweet, but bittersweet). I kind of like to think I'm hard-core.

Here's the essay:

A Lesson on Chocolate
By Sarah Sheranian

Chocolate—considered a candy by some, a food group by others—is by far the most sophisticated sweet. Its history goes back to the Mayans and Aztecs who used cacao beans to make a bitter drink reserved for royalty. When Spanish explorers arrived, they recognized chocolate’s value, and soon a sweetened version was served in every royal court in Europe. Now over 40,000 different types of chocolate are manufactured in the world, but every chocolate lover will quickly tell you that not all chocolate is equal. 

About a year ago, a close friend who knew I am a chocolate purest—the higher cocoa content the better—invited me to a chocolate tasting party. For $10 we could taste the finest chocolate in the world and hear a lecture about it. We arrived at a small home in Springville where the host, an engineer and chocolate connoisseur, invited us into his cozy living room. He passed out lists of the 12 different chocolates we would try, as well as water and French bread to cleanse the palette between each taste. 

We began with a lesson on chocolate tasting. The first step before you even put the chocolate in your mouth is to look at it. Notice the luster and color of the chocolate; high quality chocolate should be dark and shiny. Next, you smell it. This helps improve your ability to taste the chocolate once in your mouth. Lastly, you eat the chocolate slowly, allowing it to melt in your mouth, paying attention to its smoothness, initial taste, and after taste. Following each chocolate sample, we took notes on our observations and then discussed our reactions: “Rich and earthy,” “Fruity and tart,” “A soft beginning, but a strong end.” It was like a book club about chocolate.

I had always known that no two chocolates are alike. Even as a little girl, I avoided generic chocolate bunnies and gold coins from the dollar store. And I always thought tootsie rolls shamed the name of chocolate. As a teenager I truly realized this was so when my best friend brought me back a Nestle bar (70% cocoa content) from France. The chocolate was more pure and intense than anything I had ever tasted. As little bits of cocoa beans crunched in my mouth, I realized how much Nestle takes advantage of underdeveloped American palates. We were definitely buying different stuff under the same name. 

My sensitivity to chocolate was proven when I won a chocolate tasting competition at family camp one summer. We had to identify Nestle, Hershey, Ghirardelli, Swiss, and Spanish chocolate—all while blindfolded. It was easier than I expected to sense the milky smoothness of Swiss chocolate, the dark richness of Spanish chocolate, and the familiar, pleasing taste of Ghirardelli, which I always preferred.

But the chocolate at this party was on a different plane. Expensive. Refined. Exotic. I had never experienced anything like it. Light as silk, it quickly melted almost before I had a chance to chew. I was transported to lush plantations in Madagascar, Venezuela, and Indonesia—plantations owned by local farmers, plantations that use the same farming techniques as in ancient Mesoamerica, plantations that grow mangoes and papaya along side the cacao to give it better flavor. I tasted the soil, the crops that grew there before the cacao: rich flavors that surprised my taste buds with new sensations every second.

With so many different flavors in one bite, our taste buds were on guard. We sat on the edges of our seats in silent concentration as we tried each new chocolate. Then, in an eruption of “Ooos,” “Ahhs,” and “Blahs,” we expressed our reactions. One of the main topics of discussion was the aftertaste. I didn’t realize how important aftertaste was in the enjoyment of chocolate. Some chocolates left a bitter reminder imprinted on your tongue, while others left a dull sweetness lingering behind. You couldn’t cleanse your palette too quickly or you might miss this important element in chocolate tasting.

Now I must be honest: not all of the samples were pleasant. Real chocolate, like every other fine food I suppose, is an acquired taste, and my taste buds were unaccustomed to such an array of sensations. That was to be expected. What wasn’t to be expected was my reaction to a very familiar chocolate. After tasting five chocolates from the finest cocoa fields in the world, we each ate a piece of regular milk chocolate Dove candy. All of us thought, “Oh good. Something I know.” But we were about to get the shock of our lives: the taste of gasoline with a hint of peanut butter (and it was not peanut butter candy). The chocolate was waxy and heavy, its poor quality sticking to our teeth. None of us could believe that we had willingly purchased and eaten it before.

Luckily, we finished the night with some higher quality samples. The last chocolates we tasted were from Chocolatier Blue—a chocolatier company that prides itself in making the highest quality chocolates in the world. Supposedly they have searched out the finest ingredients available from premium raw butter to pistachios from Sicily which they purchase for $100 a pound. There are only two stores: one in Berkeley, CA and one in Salt Lake City, and since the chocolates are about $4 a piece, we each got to try only half of a truffle. The one I chose was dusted with gold leaf. I’m not sure if I could really taste the price, but it was good.

For a long time after the chocolate party, I refrained from eating any “unworthy” chocolate. But following the natural course of chaos, I regressed back into my old ways. Don’t get me wrong—I still know what good chocolate should taste like, but when presented with the average chocolate, I do eat. In fact, I usually have a bag of regular chocolate chips in my cupboard to curb a craving if I get one. As much as I’d like to be a chocolate snob, I am just a wannabe.

This essay started with Debbie’s candy scribble on the first day of class. The only candy I really like is chocolate, so that’s where I began, and a flood of memories followed. Thank you to all the CUWPies for their positive responses that helped me turn this piece into something more. 



What are your thoughts on chocolate?